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Faded love...how do I deal with my ex??Confused and clueless!!

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Question - (13 January 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 16 January 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, *cclareng3 writes:

I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years, were both 19. we had a rocky relationship, we had fun and commitment, after she lied to me (not cheating), we did fight a lot. The last time i saw her (5 days after break up) she told me she doesn't love me anymore and doesn't know when she fell out of love, she feels tied down and just wants to be single, I understood that we would have been great and she wouldn't feel that way if we didn't fight constantly, but after the meeting it ended with us laughing and joking, then got awkward and then she reusured me for me not to get mixed feeling and she justs wants to be friends.

I keep replaying what happened that day constantly trying to find some clue that would give me hope, but I don't know what to do now. Every now and then she comments on my facebook status (her opinion) like a friend, but I donno, should I delete her from my facebook? would it ruin the chances of me ever getting back with her or not?

one more piece of information: It was our first serious relationship for the both of us and we also lost it together. We have many memories and intense love in the past, just lately, she changed a bit after going to college. and when we broke up i told her i hated her and she begun to cry a bit (i hope that helps) but i don't, we talked.

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A female reader, ssaarraahh United States +, writes (16 January 2011):

ssaarraahh agony auntwell, i cant say much on this but to my opinion u shouldnt

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