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writes:I'm 19, have Asperger's Syndrome, I'm a uni student.I have plenty of friends, have a great family, but one thin I don't have is that special someone.I've had two relationships, one which last 2 years where my ex refused to touch me in anyway because she was having a secret sexual relationship behind my back the whole time, and a 3 month relationship with a girl who broke it off when I told her I was ready to have sex (Virgin), and on Valentine's Day too...I'm so eager to find that special someone, it's always constantly on my mind. Don't worry, no one even notices I have Asperger's anymore so that has nothing to do with it lol.I'm always wanting that special connection with someone. Not once have a I ever layed down with someone, held them in my arms and just lay still... It's horrible, I'm lonely, and I can't stand it anymore... WHATS WITH THIS??? lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2011): This may or may not make you feel better, but everyone feels the way you do sometimes.
Intimacy and love are requisites for development...it is something we NEED. It doesn't always need to be sexual, but we all need to be loved. At least you try to find it. There are plenty of people who don't try.
Keep trying. Be patient. Not everyone you meet will make you feel loved instantly. Sometimes it takes time. Best of luck.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (13 January 2011):
 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/every-time-i-start-to-get-feelings-about.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/autism-is-preventing-me-from-having-relationships-help.html
See there's females on here with your same issue! There's people on here who don't even have Asperger's and have the same issue. You have to be patient and find someone who accepts you. I know as cliche as it sounds but the moment you stop looking then you find the "one". I promise.
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