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writes:how do I know if my boyfriend of 8 months really loves me :(.....he tells me all the time but a lot of the time I just don't feel loved....and I don't want to tell him that because if I was doing all I could to show my love for someone and then they didn't think I loved them I'd feel pretty bad.but I don't feel like he does anything aside from telling me he loves me....he doesn't even kiss me hardly at all....and as silly as this may sound I think that may be why I don't feel loved, because I need kisses to feel loved....which may be immature, I don't know...I have really nice teeth, I've never had a cavity, I have great dental hygiene, I don't understand why he acts like he doesn't want to kiss me. He actually has pretty bad teeth cavity wise...hes even missing one in there...but I don't care I love him and I want to kiss him anyway :( whether his mouth is nasty or not and he knows thataside from the peck I get in greetings and goodbyes, he kisses me on the forehead sometimes.... making love doesn't feel like making love when he doesn't kiss me :( It just feels like sex am I crazy? is it unreasonable to not really feel loved just because he doesn't kiss me? sometimes I want him to kiss me so bad, that I'll just kiss him and after a few seconds he'll kind of turn his face and hug me or ask me a question or start talking and change the subject.what should I do...or should I even do anything :(
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (14 January 2011):
 Everyone is different in how they like to kiss and be kissed, the fun part? You and your boyfriend can experiment with each other about how you two like to kiss and that's never a bad thing. Lol.
Good luck with your practicing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI let him know how important it was to me...and apparently he was feeling self conscious because past relations he has had told him he wasn't a good kisser -_-.....
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (13 January 2011):
I feel the same exact way. People love and express love differently. Some are verbal, "Hey, I love you." and some are physical, with hugs and kisses, touching of the hand and so forth.
Perhaps your guy needs to know that you need physical touch so you feel close to him and kiss him while you are having sex, he doesn't have to start it.
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