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writes:I'm posting this question for the second time for more feedbacks specially from women.We were married for more than 8 years. Neither of us have complained about our friendship with opposite sex. But recentlly there is a guy she befriend. I don't know exactlly why but I don't like their friendship. I told her my feeling. She said it is just in my mind. But I can't forget to think about it. They call and meet almost everyday. Now she delete the calls ( specially the dialed ones) and texts. If he calls her any time she go even if she is with me. She said he is her customer. I can't accept it cause I don't see what makes him a special customer. I don't have proof but I feel there is something or something will happen. If he doesn't call her, she will. I ask her why she call him if he doesn't. She says he is a friend who calls her everyday and just want to check if everything is ok. Last night I asked her to go out but she was not interested and when he called her she went out. I got disappointed and am not talking to her after that and she is not trying to make up or to say sorry.My question is do I have the right to ask her not to contact him so frequentlly or am I over reacting??I asked her to limit her contact with him but she refuses blaming me invading her privacy. The duration of the every call with him is more than anybody else even me. The frequency of call is also relativelly more.Will it be difficult for her to limit the contact and attention?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2011): Why soo nice men are with that kind of women? I am sorry for you but she didn't deserve you. What if you do the same thing? Talk to her about it, if she doesn't hear you, just move on! Don't waste the time with a women who thinks that you are a clown..and again, What if you do the same thing? Ask her this question and she won't have a answer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2011): Yes you have the right to but will she listen? It sounds like she is already having an affair of some kind and she is being blatant about it. So you need to communicate about that, this is the most important thing to do. Tell her that this is damaging your relationship with her and see what she says.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (13 January 2011):
 Just so people can see what you've already been told.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-i-have-the-right-to-ask-my.html
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