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writes:I feel like my heart is about to stop beating.My girlfriend broke up with me four months ago. She told me she needed a little space to take care of some problems but she would be back by March. I just found out it was all a lie. She moved to another state two months ago to be in a relationship with one of her exgfs.I'm a shambles.I tried calling her but she didn't answer so I left a message about it then I called two hours later and her number is changed. I sent her email but it came back with a error message about user not known. Why??? Why???? Why??? I'm undone crushed hurt crying awful bad.somebody please help me help help me he'll me help me help me help me deal
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2011): You should feel sorry for the girl who she's with now because she's going to do the same thing to that girl that she's done to you. Erase her and when she comes back knocking, don't answer your door.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2011): I feel this uncontrollable urge to help people. It is the person that i am and my heart goes out to you. Fir4st if all, know that time will change things. That is not to say that it will ever be trully okay, but things may cahncge, You may meet somone who is worth caring for, and that person wont hurt you. I can't imagine what this feels like, because i have never been in a serious relationship but i do know what heart break is like and it is not fun. People surprise us everyday. They change constantly and we get stuck in their oribits and sometimes it is even hard to breath. There is no denying that you must feel very bad.
Please know that i am not trying to tell you how to feel, I am just triyn to give you the help you so badly seem to need. And by ansdwerting you i feel that i may show you a beacon of hope. I am 19, and i love writng. I want to publish manuscriopts that i wrote, and my mnain goal to help people trhough wrting. I hope i can help you.
You are young, only in your twenties, so please know that there are many yeras for you to find somebody else, plenty of years for you to recover from this. The girl who left you, went about it all wrong. But if they were willing to leave yo that way, than they wrent worth your love or your time. Know that you are a bright individula, we are all gifted with talents and dreams. focus on yourself now, acomplish something you have been puitting on the back burner. Concentrate on becoming the best possible version of yourself and then, maybe, everything will fall into place.
Look at today as the beginging of the rest of your life. Dont be the hurt woman that she left you, be the strong woman that you were before her and with her. Use your strenght to thrive in everythign to set out to do and one day it will really all work out. I know people preach this all the time, but it will. Soon, it just takes time. Plese dont feel alone, and please know that there is a spark in every one of us. and we are all capabke of so much. Do not let this cripple you, rather learn from it. Take the good from it. Lock the bad away and focus on doing so much good for yorself that everything that bothers you fades off into a abyss. Years from now, this really will all seem so far away and you WILL be happy.
you just have to belive it.
-G
p.s sorry if there are typo's. It is 1 in the morning and i'm writing really fast and i am really tired.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2011): i know how you feel my ex did the same thing to me told me she was confused and then she vanished out of my life never heard from her again then i found out 1 month ago shes been seeing someone too without my knowledge i know it hurts ive cried my eyes out over her too i went into depressionfor 5 months i know exactly how you feel all i can say is just try to be strong it took me a while for me to get over my ex it still hurts what she did but then i relized its her loss not mine.people like that are cowards they dont know how to face their problems havent you heard of the sayin "only the guilty run" she didnt have the balls to end it with you so just take it day by day and eventually youll get over it .you probably wont get over it completely but what can you do .someone better will come along and treat u you better and one day shell relize that she made a huge mistake.i hope this helps just be strong !! people like that are cruel and SELFISH!!! dont worry whatever comes around goes around one day someone will do the same thing to her as she did to you!
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