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writes:Hi, Everyone. I am a fourteen year old girl, almost fifteen, who is a freshman at my high school. I am not very popular, but people know me in a good way. Because of that, I was nominated for Homecoming Lady of Freshmen Class this year. I am not the prettiest, or the hottest, but I am still maturing, I guess. So here is my problem:1. I haven't even had my first kiss yet.Is this normal!?!? I have two sets of groups I hang out with. One group, they haven't had a boyfriend or first kiss too. The other group... let's just say they have done pretty sexual things. I am not looking for a boyfriend this year, for I am trying to focus on my grades and GPA, but am I a loser? For not having my first kiss?P.S. For guys: Do you like it when you go out with a girl and she tells you your her first kiss, make out, or possible first to have sex with? Or are you like, woooooooow. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2011): Keep concentrating and focusing on yourself. The guy thing will fall into place. Go our with groups of guy/girl friends and hang out. Don't rush sex. Your first kiss will be incredible and memorable no matter what age you are. I applaud you as well!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (13 January 2011):
 Yes, you're perfectly normal, and I applaud you for focusing on the important things rather than things that will still be there after you're done with school.
I know you're just asking out of curiousity, so from a guy's perspective, I don't care what a person's experience level is as long as they're open to exploration when they are ready. Honestly, it's not something that you really need to bring up except for maybe the virginity when a relationship turns more sexual. Be cautious, some guys lie to get into your pants. Boys your age are particularly horny and based on what we see here, have some pretty warped ideas of relationships and sex. Never rush into anything you don't feel ready for.
A good guy will take your first time very seriously. A jerk will try his hardest to be your first.
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