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writes:I am 26 years old! I am married having 1 child of 6 years old and my husband's age is 40 years! We were used to love each other before 6 years! But just because of some family problems we went far imotionaly from each other! Because of this gap between us I got attracted from 1 guy! We came so closer that we started loving each other and we spend nights together! My husband came to know this and We fighted so many times on this! But I am not ready to leave my bf! I can't leave my husband also, what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2011): Well I understand u
bcs I am married and I also like a guy from work
so I feel guilty but also I want to be with the work guy. The problem is the guy I like is married too and he does not like me back. It's even worse for me. I think u should keep them both if u can. Why not? It's a free world. U can do whatever u like.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2011): Are you expecting someone to show you a third way? THERE IS one other way none of the two. This will happen if you don't decide real quick. You know both more than anyone here, so cast your vote for either of one.
Good luck
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reader, rcn  +, writes (14 January 2011):
 I don't think your marriage included the option of having other boyfriends. Either way, you'll have to cut down to one. It's not fair for your husband to be treated this way by you. You may fight about it, but you are really not being fair to him. Actually I'd say by having the other and not letting it go, you're being mean to your husband to expect him to accept this situation. It's not right is it. What if it were him, how would you feel if he had a girlfriend on the side? Put yourself in his shoes and you can see how hurtful this can be.
My recommendation is if you keep a boyfriend, you have to loose the husband, or the other way around.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2011): You have to make a choice.You cannot have your cake and eat it too. It one or the other.Personally were I either of these men, I would kick you to the curb given your attitude. But I'm not them.You need to make a choice and then place yourself in the hands of whoever that is and respect whatever decision they make regarding whether or not they continue their relationship with you.Or let them both go and find women who aren't two timing hussies.Flynn 24
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