A
female
age
30-35,
*old13
writes:Okay,me and my boyfriend have been dating for nearly three years now.hes a great guy.the problem is me.everytime we had sex,i couldnt stay hot til the end,and i rarely orgasm when im with him.We tried everything.foreplay,positions,etc.i had a great sensation,but it couldnt stay longer.please help me,i hate upsetting him.he thought hes not doing good enough.but i know hes doing great.
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reader, straight to the truth  +, writes (13 January 2011):
its the way us women are built i'm afraid.
Only 30% of woman orgasm during sex, its not your fault or your boyfriends fault.
We enjoy whats happening and get into it but we dont necesarily climax.
It is not like in the movies or in porn, thats is all fake.
You just need to understand that sex is fun and the closeness is great and you can still love it even without the orgasm.
There will still be positions that feel better tan others but they still might not get you to orgasm.
Enjoy the sex and both of youneed to stop worrying about the climax, just enjoy what you are doing.
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