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writes:She tells me she loves me, but she says she can only put her mind in the relationship not her heart, I am always mad at her for stuff she does, like 3 of her exs call and text an she says they are just friends, but all hours of the night, I know it aint physical, there 8oo miles away, but she also like the attention she gets from strangers, but i tell her all the time she sexy and beautiful, why does she seek the attention, like mine aint enough, its almost like im livin with her because it benifits her, constantly doggin me out to, if I get a beer she gets mad, im 26 no kids she is 24 with one kid, but she drinks til she blackout is there a problem with this, I have another detailed post, please give your opinion
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (13 January 2011):
I personally think you're an ATM card for her and her child, if you want the truth. And you seem to suggest that you know it too. There doesn't seem to be anything redeeming about this woman at all.
She's in contact with all her ex's, but accepts calls at all times of the day and night no matter what. She seems to specifically go out of her way for the attention of men and is happy to set double standards when it comes to drinking, nights out etc.
I don't see any way that this can work with her acting the way she is. She's setting double standards, and she seems to be using you a bit to be honest. Maybe you should reconsider the relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2011): My friend this problem is mine too. Why my wife needs the attention from other man. I told her to refrain but like urs, mine says they are just friends. We are in fire over this. She even say many times if I can't trust and forget it she will consider a divorce. What? We have two kids and we don't have any other big argument except this one. I got surprised when she pull the divorce for this. I now lost my hope in the relation. I'm waiting ehat time will bring. I take the divorce if she really mean it!!!
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