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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Me and some guy that rides in my bus in the morning started talking for a long time and i've been trying a lot for him to get with me.A few months passed and we began texting and talking on the phone for a while just getting to know eachother and it seem to work out very well.I went to his house and we expressed our feelings about eachother and we kissed.Then we kept kissing but like in a place that no one would see us.One day my friend told me to help him get his girlfriend back so i did and we pretended to go out for a few days by holding hands and such.That same day the guy i like saw us together holding hands and thought wrong but i didnt know he saw us.Then i texted him 6th period and he wrote haha your funny and i was all confused about it and he told me he saw me and my friend holding hands and i explained it to him and he doesnt believe me at all and i kept telling him i still like and all that stuff and he told me just forget about us move on for god sake theres more guys like me anyways.And i don't know what to do anymore i miss him a grip and i really want to get him back.What should i do?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (13 January 2011):
You sound younger than 18-21.
You should know helping another friend get back his girlfriend when you're talking to another guy you like is a bad idea.
Sounds like he's pretty hurt by you. I suggest letting him cool off for about a week or two, then trying to talk to him again. If it helps I would have your friend that asked you to help your other friend back you up. Now, if he blows you off again, then you're going to have to move on. He's right there are other guys out there like him.
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