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writes: ive had 4 girlfriends over the past 5 years, but its the last 2 that are important. in my last relationship it started to get serious and i was fine with that. me and my ex are good friends and talk all the time. she was also entering a serious relationship. we would blabber all of our problems to each other. we were alone one night at hers and we ended up sleeping together. it didnt affect the relationship, it made both of us more in live with our partener. now, with my current girlfriend, things are getting serious, and im still close to my ex. she hasnt got a boyfriend but she desperatly wants one. ive become nervy around her and my girlfriend because im scared something might happen. i love the girl im with and swore to myself ill never make the mistake again, but i know that anything can happen. should i push her away as a friend or was it just a one off because we were both nervous going into a serious relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice guys. From your adcice ive decided im going to split up with my curent gf and get with my ex. since posting this i was told "you know youre 1". shes my 1.
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reader, largentsgirl89  +, writes (13 January 2011):
 Are you sure you're just friends with your ex girlfriend? I couldn't watch my bf be with another person, there's no way that would happen.
I don't think you are going to have a real meaningful relationship with your current gf if you are constantly talking to your ex gf about the things you should be talking to your current gf about (your problems, etc..)
It doesn't sound like committment is your problem, perhaps letting go is the problem. You said the last two were important, not the last one, so that tells me that you still have feelings for your ex gf and the fact that you slep with her. YOu need to come clean with your gf about cheating on her with your ex gf, she deserves to know.
Does your current gf have a problem with the fact that you talk to your ex gf?
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reader, dirtball +, writes (13 January 2011):
 Cheating doesn't make you more in love with your partner. It makes you act that way out of the guilt you feel. I think you should tell your GF what happened with you and your ex and let her decide what she wants knowing the TRUTH. If you care about her like you claim, doesn't she deserve to know?
You're not over your ex. She's not over you. As long as you two maintain contact, neither of you will have a real meaningful relationship with anyone else.
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