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writes:OK so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 weeks now and i feel we are moving apart and also when i asks him how doo i look he says fine ? i always compliment him but he never does to me he gives me hugs and kissed me on the check for a dare but wanted a dollar for it. Am i waisting my time with me is he the one for me ,should i stay with him he is very grabby and always likes to be around me but he sometimes acts distant i dont wanna lose him he treats me like a princess and i love him.I gave 4 questions1. Is he the right guy for me2. why does he act distant and how di we not become distant3.Should i stay with him4. please please help me i have been freakiing out should i be worried or is this normal Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2011): Pahaha 2 weeks and you're in "love". Lol.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (13 January 2011):
 I'm sorry but at two weeks out you guys should still be "stuck up each other's butts" as my kids say...
IF you already feel trouble in paradise this may not be the guy for you...
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reader, kenny  +, writes (13 January 2011):
 I always think that the best parts of relationships are normally the first couple of months, the honeymoon period as we call it, where everything is new, fun, exciting, happy and joyous. I think its way way to early on for you to be asking questions like this, and certainly too early to be declaring love. Give it time, enjoy each other and have fun, and don't over analyse things to much, relax and just see where the road takes you.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2011): 1. Is he the right guy for me
You've been together 2 weeks. That's just 14 days so there's no way to tell unless i have a crystal ball.
2. why does he act distant and how di we not become distant
If he's acting distant after just 2 weeks that's a sign you need to TALK to him about it.
3.Should i stay with him
Up to you.
4. please please help me i have been freakiing out should i be worried or is this normal
Define "normal".
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (13 January 2011):
 hi
you have only been with him 2 weeks? and you say you 'love him' ??? you don't love him if you are having doubts about him already and complaining that he is not complimentary enough for you, is distant sometimes but other times treats you like a princess. you may think you love him, but it is really too soon! you can't have gotten to know him well enough ALREADY that you can say you love him, surely? he is a bit more cool towards you than you are to him but he is just being normal, he is not going over the top like you are. have patience to see how things develop before you just dump him! if he is still not attentive enough for you over the curse of the next say, six months, you will then know he is not the man for you. be careful though because you sound so 'high maintenance' that you might find it hard to meet any one who is attentive enough for you
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reader, dirtball +, writes (13 January 2011):
 LMAO! Those were some special two weeks!
I know we live in an instant gratification society now, but there used to be this thing called PATIENCE. Where people gave things time to find out if it worked long term.
Too bad that's lost on you.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (13 January 2011):
 Its way too early to say whether you will be together in the future or not. You need to spend this time getting to really know each other, by taking etc. You don't know him and he doesnt know you. See how you go on just being in each others company and weigh the situation up. These are questions you should be asking about 6 months down the line, if you are still together.
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reader, Learner.uk +, writes (13 January 2011):
 Hi,
1) You have only been going out for 2 week's that really is not long, you cant get to know someone that well in the first 2 week's because you will just be going through the initial honeymoon period, so you wont beable to tell if he is the rite guy or not in just 2 week's, it may be month's down the line before people's true personality etc come out.
2)Maybe he is acting distant because he does not want to rush things or because of past relationship issues, personaly I would just talk to him and see how he feel's and say how you feel.
3) You say he is a nice guy and as said above it is only 2 week's in, only you will know deep down inside. Are you happy with him? Is he happy? can you see a future with him? Just need to go through these things in your head it is early day's still.
4) I think you may be freaking out a little too much at this time over everything, it looks like you have got these thoughts into your head and they are running around over and over, Just try to relax be happy and positive about everything, if you show you are panacing etc it does reflect onto other people, Again remember it's only 2 weeks and in the bigger picture that is nothing!
Hope this help's, All the best!
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reader, faenon  +, writes (13 January 2011):
 It's not normal to worry over a 2week relationship and neither should you be worried likewise with saying you feel you're growing apart how can you possibly feel or see that from a 2weeks young relationship thats just irrational logic right there.
If he is being overly distant to you already then maybe his lost interest the relationship is young afterall.
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