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writes:Hey Ladies and Gents,Here's the scope. I want advice on what I can do to get over this or just not let it bother me. I have a gf(yea!!) and she talks about other guys(boo!!) in conversations with each other. I understand its okay for her to have a group of guy friends that she likes to hang out with but wtf? I've mentioned it to her that it bothers me. Ignored her text messages sometimes when she talks about her guy friends(I don't really need to know that you spent Saturday night with 4-5 guys and watched movies with them thats just not a good way to me to start a Sunday(i mean I could be wrong)), and recently started asking questions to get just get her off the subject. I don't know what her deal is. She does act weird around these guys when I'm with her. When were together I really enjoy her company. She means alot to me. I don't want to think anything is going on but I go out of my way not to mention other girls in my life. I feel it is disrespectful to be like(oh Susan today ate all the cookies) I mean Im not focused that much on other girls in my life to mention conversations/things we did together..? Is that bad? I don't want to feel like I'm being jealous but I just feel sick that she keeps doing this. I've thought about just saying random sentence that I did things with girls or just going out and getting a bunch of friends that are girls myself. We got a little distance in our relationship but people who've had this problem please help me out. I am going to visit her in a couple of weeks and I need to come up with a better plan. I think I can live better than this and deserve better than this. Please let me know your thoughts?
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reader, adamskidude  +, writes (6 April 2011):
 She's probably doing this to make you think she doesn't need you, it's like reverse psychology. She thinks by making you believe she doesn't need you, you will go out of your way to make her need you. It's quite a shallow thing to do, are you sure she's the one?
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