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writes:my boyfriend has brought up the idea of a three some i am down with it i ask my friend and she is down with it why wont my boyfriend ask his friend to join us in a three some and how can i get him to ask him
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2011): I've said this before and I'll say it again, threesomes TOTALLY fuck relationships! They are the road to sorrow, guilt, jealousy and other emotional misery.Threesomes should be done with 2 prostitutes, PERIOD!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2011): this helped alot he is so down for it and so is his friend and mine so i am good thank you so much
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2011): Because your boyfriend wants to do it with two girls not a guy and you. He doesn't mind having sex with you and another girl at the same time but he won't let you have the pleasure of having two guys at once.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2011): You're asking for trouble. Why are you two together if you're lusting after other people?? This is a recipe for disaster.
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reader, Partyboy123  +, writes (5 April 2011):
 Your boyfriend may think its "hot" or "sexy" to see a threesome, or be in one... its a fantasy of like every guy to be with two girls or more at one time... but its not a fantasy he wants to execute with his girlfriend and her friend. If you pushed the subject too much to him he will just think your a slut, or that you don't care about his feelings. Maybe your boyfriend doesn't want his friend to join, maybe he just wants you and your friend? IDK, its kind of a tough subject unless you ask your boyfriend his opinion and how he feels about the whole thing..
Hope this helped.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (5 April 2011):
 Because your boyfriend doesn't like the idea of sharing you with another guy, especially one he knows. Don't push the issue. The more you push for that friend, the more he'll be convinced that you prefer his friend to him. Honestly, this is a dangerous road you two are headed down. Be careful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2011): Those whom truly love you don't want to share you. A threesome hardly ever ends out with no one hurt. I would take it as a huge red flag if he doesn't want to invite another man into the 'threesome' Ask him how he feels about a MMF threesome instead, and see what he says
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2011): threesomes and relationships are highly discouraged and there is plenty of info on this site that will state why, respectfully.
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reader, Amy..  +, writes (5 April 2011):
Next time you are talking about it just joke and say what about your friend.. Don't be surprised if he says no because guys may think it's too "gay for them and it's not cool" but for girls guys see that okay and sometimes a "turn on"
Hope this helped you
-Amy..
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