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*illowheartstring
writes:my boyfriend told me he masturbates over me and porn which i was fine with, but yesterday he came out with the fact he doesn't masturbate over me anymore he does it over other girls we know and porn. This really upset me, why would he do it over girls we both know and are our friends, is this right? And why would he just suddenly stop doing it over me, does he not feel the same way about me anymore?
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (5 April 2011):
 Sexual arousal through fantasy is kinda like going to the same bar. He's already sitting in the same seat with the same beer and same bartender. You just walked into the bar not to long ago and it's going to take some time for him to notice you and reprogram the scene.
That simple, nothing personal.
On the other hand, you don't want to be in that scene because it may become the only way he can be aroused by you.
Which means when you are with him, he is someplace else in his head doing the same things with you like a broken record.
It's best he keeps you out of his fantasies and in the REAL with you.
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reader, Amy..  +, writes (5 April 2011):
I think you should just ask him why does he think of others and not you.. Just talk to him about it and if your not happy in this relationship maybe its just not working but if you both are happy with eachother everything will be fine. But I would ask him why and just talk about it and it will be hard but you will get the best result. Hope this helped
-Amy..
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