A
female
age
41-50,
*amsortof
writes:im really worried for my relation i love that guy like hell . we have been together for almost 6 years we love each other in the begining we were so loving and close but the day he joind the school for higher studies he is changed going away he's more happy with friends and tv programs in the begining he used to bunk every single activity to be with me. i miss him all the time he hardly txt me 3 times a day . when i miss him the most he says you are over reacting then we both fight and this is becoming our habbit we almost fight daily . whhen i ask him to separate and have a break up he says never. im fed up he's not the same we are not understanding each other . but wana keep each other all the time . what to do to be normal again to make him the same like he was before.he doesnt even notice what im wearing or how im looking.
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (5 April 2011):
 Relationship's are always changing, don't try to stop change, it's a good thing. The honeymoon is over. It's time to progress with other things. Family, education, spiritual enlightening, personal development. You have to do new things for yourself as well. Becoming stuck in the past is not moving forward. If fighting is the thing this month, than that's what it is. It will probably lead to new things and a deeper understanding of each other. There is no NORMAL, there is just movement, sometimes a crazy train, but at least it's moving. Take inventory, change things about yourself you'd like to change. But don't worry about things, worrying is lifes giant brake.
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