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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Okay so I've been in a relationship with this wonderful guy for about two and a half months. He's great, and his family adores me. Both of us being hispanic its not uncommon for our parents to hangout and have drinks and such. However, one of these nights his mom spilled to mine that she goes through all their text messages, and actually found out his little brother has a girlfriend! It leaves me wondering..what else does she know?? We have a habit of sexting every once and a while and I've sent him sexy pictures(not nude)....she says only wonderful things about me but what should I do? Its starting to freak me out thinking about it. What should I say or not say? Is she too nosy?
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (5 April 2011):
 I dont think saying anything to her would be a good idea - you will only cause a problem and may offend her. After all, if that is how she raises her children then that is her decision, you cant really tell her to stop it because it is her son and if she feels that it is right to check text messages as part of raising a child then fair enough. I suggest you say something to your boyfriend, and maybe he can have a word with her. Or is there an alternative to sending texts to each other? Can you send your pics in an email or something? Or does she check computers too? Just talk to your boyfriend and tell him it makes you uncomfortable that she might see these pictures, and see what he has to say. I hope this helps and good luck!
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