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*aiti30
writes:Lately, me and my now ex boyfriend have been haveing relationship problems... we have had a rough year, from cheating, lying, breaking up, losing babies... and it seems right when we get to the point where our relationship is healing... he breaks up with me... And its mostly out of anger not that were just working, but it takes me at least 2 weeks to get his mind set that we do love eachother... and usually we have 2 see each-other for him to relise it... But last week, i found out i had a miscarriage i was 8 weeks along, and 5 hours after i found out... he promised he wouldnt leave me, then just 2 hours after that... he left... because i got mad he added a girl he almost slept with to his faceook, who he knows i dont like, and he just freaked out... didnt talk t me... and i said sorry... he wnats nothing to do with me now... he didnt even try to comfort me at all... So im out of ways for us to be together, everyone says stop talking to him for a while, he'll relise it... but thats what he wnats... this is going to sound bad but i send him at least 26 texts in a row... do you guys think not talking to him will change his mind about how hes acting and come chasing after me? or do you have a different strategy? i know he loves me, his anger is just through the roof
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reader, Yetilicious +, writes (6 April 2011):
 Well, I hope everything works out for you. Don't worry, if he's not the one, then there is a man even more perfect for you out there somewhere, just waiting for you. Everything happens for a reason.
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reader, kaiti30 +, writes (5 April 2011):
kaiti30 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Ive Told myself, that im not texting him anymore, if he txts me, ill txt bak, but only 1 message, no duplicates, and i refuse to text him first, he got a letter last night of how i felt about him, so hopefully things will look up soon, thank you so much! im glad im not the only one... and mine isnt out of obession or anyhting just to put that out there, ts more of me getting mad that he wont text me... so thank you so much..;.
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reader, Yetilicious +, writes (5 April 2011):
I can relate. At least on the issue of getting so worked up to the point that I end up sending the guy 20 texts in a row even after he said he was turning his phone off. Afterwards I'm like "oh, crap WHY did I do that?!?".I think it was wrong of him to add a girl to his FB that he openly almost had sex with and knowing you are uncomfortable with it. I wouldn't tell him not to, that would come off as controlling. Just email him and tell him how you feel about it, tell him you're just afraid of losing him, and that you don't mean to freak out on him or stress him out. I wouldn't contact him any more, he knows you want to talk to him, youve texted him a lot of times. If he still wants you and the relationship he will reply sooner or later. Hope all goes well, let us know what happens!
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