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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I don't know how to gain my parents trust.A month ago, my boyfriend and I were making out in his room. And his parents caught us. So they over exaggerated it to my parents, and they think we were having sex. Its been a month, and his parents demand that I need permission from my parents if i go anywhere with him; walks, being alone, ect. So last weekend we wanted to go to a park for lunch, and we didn't plan on doing anything. But our parents are paranoid, and said they don't trust us in the same car when he's driving because they think emotions will get in the way, and we might have sex. So because of this, we have nothing to do. Instead we're forced to sit in the living room, and watch TV. We're not allowed to do anything. Because their still paranoid.And i love being with him, don't get me wrong. But it's so bad that we cant be alone to have a private conversation.What do we do to gain back our trust?!? Reply to this Question
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reader, dirtball +, writes (5 April 2011):
 Is your age really accurate? If it is, you're a legal adult. You should focus on moving out so you don't have to answer to them anymore. It's not so much their trust, but they are afraid of their little girl growing up. There comes a point though where they have to let you live your own life. If your age is accurate, you're about there.
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