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writes: My bf has trouble maintaining an erection when we're having sex, and I'd like some advice on how to help him. He says the problem is that he starts worrying that he's not pleasing me, and that makes him loose his erection. We've been together 7 months and everything else in our relationship is great :) I love him very much, and I am always satisfied when we have sex. He's only just told me about this problem, and I told him straight away that he makes me feel amazing when we have sex and that he is awesome in bed. But...I'm thinking of making it all about him next time we have sex...concentrating on him with my hands/mouth instead to kinda take any pressure he feels off him. What do you think? Any other tips would be appreciated. Thanks :)
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reader, hotinlove  +, writes (5 April 2011):
just an idea, try and blindfold him, if he is ok with it!! I think you are right, make it all about him, Blind fold him while you perform on him talk about him and play up his good attributes that you really like about him. Maybe he just needs a good ego boost once in a while. Being blindfolded will make him concentrate more on what hes feeling, and he should be feeling damn good!
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reader, Ambassadeur Koko  +, writes (5 April 2011):
 Perhaps your boy friend mind and attention is not always concentrated on the sex between the two of you. If this is the case, then he needs to take his thoughts from outside and feel the sex, concentrate on you and the action. He If he may be thinking of a problem outside or any other thing out side while at the same time having sex, he may loose the rection quickly. Fondling him and him doing the same can also help. Try this.
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