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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I can't choose between these two guys. I used to date both of them at seperate times of course and now they both want me back. One is way hot and sweet and I know he loves me but he lives far away so I barely get to see him. Also he's broken up with me twice because we never see each other. The other is not as cute but he's funny and makes me laugh. He lives close to me but I haven't known him as long as the other one. My friends don't approve of him because he always flirts with other girls even when we were dating and I don't love him as much as the other. The seond one and I wanted to keep our relationship secret so we've been hooking up in secret but that was before the first one said he wanted me back. I care about them both and I don't want to lose either of them. I have no idea what to do.
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave  +, writes (5 April 2011):
You seem to be pointing yourself to the one who lives far away, but if that's the one you're going to go for then you have to find a way of making it work.
You say he's dumped you twice because of distance, come up with a way of avoiding history repeating itself.
How far away is he anyway?
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reader, Yetilicious +, writes (5 April 2011):
 Well you are going to have to lose one of them, otherwise it's just stringing them along. From what you told me, I'd go for the hot sweet one who lives far away. He seems more loyal, I think a guy who flirts with girls WHILE you're dating is a huge red flag. You should "listen to your heart" and go with the one that you love the most.
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