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writes:There is this guy who i have been spending time with recently, quite a lot of time actually but always in the company of friends. We also text very frequently. i have known him for years and i have started to like him a lot, we seem to get on very well in each others company but im not sure if he wants anything more. We have shared a bed, he slept in his boxers but nothing at all happened. He also dated an old friend for some time which i fear may be an issue.Do i bother trying to take this further?
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reader, Partyboy123  +, writes (5 April 2011):
 Hey :),
The nice thing about knowing him for so many years is that you probably mostly everything about him... which is a great thing to have in a relationship... He may be interested in you but is scared to ask because you have been friends so long, and guys always think, "if im in the friend zone i am screwed, so why bother?!"... and by him sleeping in his boxers in the same bed as you shows that he has sexual control over what he does with you, and shows that he CLEARLY respects you - which can be a sign that he is trying to show you that he likes you -
In all honesty, I knew a girl for 2 years, and I thought she was pretty and all - but she had a boyfriend - and I was literally BFF's with her, we would talk about everything and shit... it was soo awesome, and i wanted to be with her so bad... but when I finally got over it and decided to move on and start looking for another match, her boyfriend dumped her and she started asking me to hangout a lot, and she told me she thought i was cute all along (so she liked me but we were friends, and the boyfriend complication)..
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if you like him like that, chances are he likes you like that... people grow on people, and people fall in love with people after spending a lot of time with someone even in a friendly way.
hopefully you talk to him and see how he feels, if it doesn't work out; chances are he will start falling for you :)
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reader, Amy..  +, writes (5 April 2011):
If you feel like it may go further then go for it.. Don't go too far too early. First find out does he feel the same then if he does one thing will lead to another :)
Good luck
-Amy..
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