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anonymous
writes:Well,I have an amazing boyfriend, that I really like, and have liked him for years.It feels so right to go out with him.But there is one problem. I've been texting this other guy. I really like him too.He makes me feel so special and loved, he kind of treats me better than my boyfriend as well, as in, if you didn't know me and my boyfriend, you would think we were just friends if you seen us but if you seen me and this boys texts you'd think we were totally in love.But this boy I've been texting is a bit of a player, always talking to other girls, told me he's cheated on other girls and stuff and I know my boyfriend would never do that.Lately me and this boy haven't really been talking much because he said 'it kills him knowing I have a boyfriend' so we've kind of fallen out over it, I know I shouldn't care because my boyfriend is the best thing that's happened in a long time.But I really don't know what to do about this boy, I really like him, I'm so confused about them both, I need help! Any suggestions on what I can do about it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2011): "he said 'it kills him knowing I have a boyfriend'"
That's bullsh*t, sorry but it is. You know he's a player so why are you letting him fool you. I'm sure you're not a stupid girl so stop acting like one.
I suggest you stop texting this "player" guy and wise up. He only wants one thing from you and as soon as he gets it he'll drop you like a stone. He's not "nice", he's a cheat and a user who uses charm to get what he wants.
If you really loved your boyfriend you wouldn't be doing this to him. Don't hurt him over some loser who just wants to use you. You do realise he's more than likely saying the same "nice" things to other girls as well?
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (5 April 2011):
 Realize that all that nice stuff he was saying was just a bunch of lies to get in your pants. That's what players do. They tell you what you want to hear until they get what they want, then drop you so they can move onto the next bimbo who falls for their line of shit.
Keep your focus where it belongs, on this great boyfriend you have. Be happy you found someone who REALLY cares about YOU and not what he can get out of you.
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