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Should I tell him when he give me butterflies?

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Question - (5 April 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 April 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I was just wondering, do guys want to know when they are turning you on? Only because my boyfriend sometimes does this thing when he starts drawing on the back of my hand with his finger and then he sometimes runs his hand gently down my arm and it really turns me on but I don't know whether that is the sort of thing I should tell him or do I keep it to myself? Like when he gives me butterflies, would that be something he'd want to hear? I'm just curious :)

(Btw I am his first GF if that makes a difference)

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A male reader, honestman Mexico +, writes (6 April 2011):

There is no bigger turn on for a guy than a woman telling him "you are making me wet"

that, and a slight moan of pleasure.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (5 April 2011):

So_Very_Confused agony auntI agree with Dataluke...

a sigh,

a look

a simple... "oh my"

sometimes "I like that" is enough

but some reaction is a good thing..

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A male reader, Dataluke United Kingdom +, writes (5 April 2011):

Dataluke agony auntGuys tend to like to know if what they're doing is working but it puts up off if you come out and say 'wow that action is really turning me on'.

We prefer more subtle signs, like a soft moan or two, or saying that your getting wet, or passionately kissing when he does it. There are huge numbers of responses you could give.

All the best, Dataluke

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