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How can I stop wanting to date my friend who's already in a relationship?

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Question - (5 April 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 April 2011)
A male United States age 36-40, *olidus writes:

I have this friend, we met about a month and a half ago maybe? She's smart, funny, gorgeous (one of her sisters is even a model) anyway, we talk all the time and always have fun when we hang out together and maybe its just the natural guy inclination to be attracted to a gorgeous/amazing girl, but every time I'm with her I just can't stop thinking about how much I want to date her, which is a problem considering she's "seeing" someone.

This doesn't leave me many options, so I'm trying to just put these feelings of attraction out of my head, which is difficult when we go out together and she looks like a million bucks. I mean, this girl literally cannot walk down the street without men hitting on her.

Do you guys have any suggestions on how I can control my attraction to her?

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A male reader, Solidus  United States +, writes (5 April 2011):

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Solidus  agony auntI could do that, but I don't want to make things awkward between us or anything. So we just hang out a lot and have a good time. She told me that her sister and her friend love me, which is cool, lets me know if I ever wanted to make a move I'd prob have them in my corner. I'm just trying to be respectful of whatever she's got going with this other guy.

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