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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I am in love with this girl. 11 yrs ago I left our school because our love life was disturbing my education. Yet since then i have not found love in any other be it man or woman. the worst of it all is that i am preparing for my marriage this month and just last month she called on phone. someone gave her my cell no and since that day i have lost concentration in everything. i tried to fight what i feel for her but it keep increasing. i am so confused and i can't sleep-- i cant do anything. i see her everywhere i go. tell me why do i love a fellow girl like this and what can i do. thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Drat001  +, writes (7 April 2011):
If you are going to be married and yet are having ANY doubt about your sexual interest in any other person, be it male or female, then you are NOT ready for marriage.
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reader, Yetilicious  +, writes (5 April 2011):
 You obviously shouldn't be getting married if you have doubts of any kind, not to mention if you can't get this other girl out of your mind. Why would you want to marry someone if you are in love with someone else? You will just regret it more down the road when you're married, and it will be more painful for your current girlfriend. I would cancel the wedding, tell her you need a break and some time to think things out. Then see if this girl from your past is who you really want. Don't cheat, just hang out with her. 11 years have passed, she may be a completely different person now and maybe you'll find out you don't want her anymore, or you'll find she is the one for you. Either way, at least you won't live the rest of your life wondering "what if"
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