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writes:I am 24, my penis is small in 5". I am going to marry, how can I have good sex with my wife?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2011): It is particularly how you use it TOGETHER that makes it all special.
Really, the key to great sex is the tongue, and I'm not talking about oral sex, I'm talking about using it to talk.
Talk, and listen, listen well, and talk to her nicely, gently, and lovingly.
Really, love her, really love her, cherish her, and treat her like a queen regardless of what everyone/anyone else on the earth thinks. Put her first in all things and tell her every day that you love her and that she is beautiful.
Tell her when she is sad that it is OK.
Tell her when she is sick that it is OK.
Tell her when she is tired that it is OK.
Tell her, don't assume that she knows.
Every time you part from her for the day, hold her in your arms gently for a few moments, tell her that your day will not be complete until you hold her again.
Don't ever assume she knows.
It will be hard at times to do all that, you will fight, you will disagree, there will be tears and anger, but if you both really love each other there will be something greater.
There will be Love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2011): Penis size questions are fascinating. For some reason, many men think bigger penises are better. Probably because of women and their comments, and other men and their comments.Look at these posting lines to get some feedback.Remember, most people posting here are a but screwed up so don't believe everyone.http://www.dearcupid.org/keyword/my%20penisMy favorite post is below, particularly since I wrote it...A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2011):NO.NO.NO.It is not enough. You could have a penis the size of a bus and it won't be enough. Frankly, it isn't what you do with your penis that makes it either, it's what you do overall.You don't make love to a woman with your penis.Do you know, this is true (I've read the text and it was in the national library of an Islamic country), there was an old Arabic writing about women and satisfying them (several hundred years old...so take it for what it is worth), and the conclusion was that only a "bear or a donkey" were well endowed enough to satisfy a woman.So, are you a bear?Are you a donkey?If not, then make love to the woman with your entire body, and your entire mind.On the other hand, if you are a bear, or a donkey, then I guess you are all set...but I'd sure like to know where you learned to type.
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reader, Partyboy123  +, writes (5 April 2011):
 hey man, im not married or anything, i am still a virgin(christian background), but my grandfather always told me, its not how deep you fish, its how you wiggle your worm... and another thing, if she loves you and you love her, it will be great sex no matter what.
cheers!:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2011): Well size doesn't matter as much as how good a fit you are for each other. You may be 'small' but she may be very tight which would work out good for the both of you. I mean when you have sex, how does it feel? If the size of her vagina fits your penis good you have nothing to worry about in terms of that. To have good sex you both need to be really attracted to each other and have a similar sex drive. Sexual compatibility is what leads to good sex. There are things you can do to up your attraction level. A guy with a nice upper body is always attractive. Maybe start working out, building up your shoulders, arms and torso. Do things around the house with your shirt off. Fixing stuff and the like. That's hot.
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reader, honestman  +, writes (5 April 2011):
You can have good sex with her if you give yourself to her. Don't rush things. Keep it slow, and calm. Pleasure her first, and if possible, make her orgasm orally. She will be very thankful if you pleasure her first. Then, you can penetrate her. Id doesn't matter if you have a small penis, what matter most if that you give her pleasure, and leave yourself to the last. Also, remember that woman have nerves just only in the first 1/3 of her vagina, so it really does not matter the size of your penis. What matter most, is how willing you are to pleasure her. Let her guide you. Let her let you know what she likes and what she don't like.And just one last thing: have fun!
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