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writes:So where is the line drawn with girlfriends and male friends? my girlfriend occationaly texts guys she met on vacation. Shes also facebook friends with them and when they wished her happy birthday they used pets names for each other. Also a bunch of guys post on her wall and talk to her and stuff, it seems a little flirty but not that much, just like "i miss you, its been so long!" stuff like that. And she responds yeah! it has, i miss you to :). At school she says sexual things around guys, like my friends and hers. like at lunch a kid got some sour cream on his arm and she said, "did you just jack off? cause u have jizz on your arm" and just sexual stuff. Also theres this guy friend that gives her hugs in the hall ways, she says he like a brother and known him for ever. tell me what you guys think, is there a line being crossed?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have zero female friends, I never text other girls. there's this girl I talk to on the bus some times, and my car broke after school and she gave me a ride home and one of my girlfriends friends saw us and took a picture of us. my girlfriend didn't accuse me of anything, she trusted me 100%. I don't like this girl, nothing happend, there was no chance anything would. but my girlfriend was upset about this for like a day and a half. she said not at me or anything, the situation upset her. the way she said she felt is the same exact way I feel when were together and she gets a text from another guy. I told her that and she didn't say much about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2011): Yeah, but she may not realize it. She may be "all innocent", but she's crossing the line with sexual flirting and putting herself out there as "available".
Sooner or later, someone is going to pick up the line and run with it, and if she's in a bad place in your relationship it will spell trouble.
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reader, lillydream2  +, writes (5 April 2011):
well what is the line exactly?
can she be expected to not be friendly with other people? I can see where your coming from, but I can't quite get your premis. what are you like with other girls? do you have girls that are 'just friends'? maybe look at the big picture and if there is no sexual feeling towards other guys and she is genuine for you, then don't worry. but I would sit down with her and explain how you feel.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (5 April 2011):
 Only if she's expressed interest in them before or has been sexual with them. Otherwise I think it sounds like she's just being friendly. I mean it's close to the line, but no I don't think it's been crossed.
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