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Could he still be interested? Or should I leave it alone?

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Question - (9 September 2010) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female Australia age 41-50, anonymous writes:

During the summer, I met someone and things went really well between us. We would talk a lot, sometimes hang out with friends and sometimes alone.

I knew he was interested in me seeing how much effort he made when talking to me. When we first met we had brief conversations, then he started talking to me a lot more the day after eventually asking me for my number. And he initiated the first kiss and hug a week later after leaving a friends house. Within a few weeks we were sleeping together, and he called the day after. THEN he started to flirt with me and one time brought up one time when we had sex (in a very subtle tone)

We haven't talked about whats going on, if this is just a hook up or if there could be something else more. I'm shy to bring it up because I would feel embarrassed with the idea of him knowing that I have been thinking about things... yet am I reasonable to be thinking about this?

To make matters worse, we haven't spoken in a few weeks. I thought it would be a good idea to give us some space so we wouldn't quickly get bored of eachother or let him think that I have nothing better to do.

I am thinking about getting it touch just to say hello. I do miss talking to him and I have enjoyed being in his company. Also, to mention about what's being on between us after not talking to him in weeks may be not the best thing to say..?

So my question is, could be interested despite the fact that we haven't spoken in some time? Or should I just leave it?

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