| A
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: My ex "friends with benefits" has a new gf, well i say new, he's been with her nearly a year. He's always been a flirt, but lately he's been talking about what we used to do together in bed and did thinking about it turn me on. I'm pretty uncomfortable with this as he is with her. He's asked me on a few occasions for a picture of myself, i declined. He said that if he doesn't get a picture he might not "play" the next time i see him. I don't get it, he was the one who said we only be friends because he's with her, so what now? He changed his mind? I would never sleep with him while he's with her by the way, just to make that clear. I told him to stop with the sexual convos and he said he would never cheat on his gf and that i must have taken it the wrong way. Is he lying? Messing with me on purpose? I mean i don't think i'm overreacting because as far as i'm aware friends don't ask for pictures etc... do they?
View related questions:
flirt, has a girlfriend Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (10 September 2010):
 He sounds like a controlling creep. Is this really enhancing your life and making you happy?
Tell him to get lost and move on before things get weird!!
A
reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2010): It looks very dodgy to me. Is the photo to show someone he plans to bring into an arrangement? Is his girlfriend bi? Does he just fancy a change. He`s up to something in my opinion.
...............................
A
male
reader, CaringGuy +, writes (9 September 2010):
He's playing with you, because his hope is that you'll give in so he can have his way with you and her. Friends don't tend to ask each other for pics. I think this is a guy you could to do to remove from your life.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2010): He's trying to see what he can get away with and when you call him on it, he's oh I would never cheat on my girl friend. You have him sussed, keep away from him.
...............................
|
