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Help!!! I think my boyfriend is cheating on me. How do I tell?

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Question - (9 September 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 10 September 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *trawberryYouth writes:

Okay, so.. My boyfriend recently tried to leave me, but got back together with me. He started to act aggressively saying things like "To get away from you" when he leaves the phone(We're in a long distance relationship), but that's sort of died down. Now, today I just found out he's been speaking to another girl, and she's getting a game called "World of war craft" to speak to him online. They've obviously been staying up late, speaking to one another while I'm sleeping. Earlier, she told him she loved him on his status from facebook. He's telling me she's only a friend, but could this be a lie..?

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A male reader, Was  +, writes (10 September 2010):

He isnt good enough for you. If he carred as much as he ever said he did, he wouldnt treat you like that. LDR's take ALOT of dedication and work. I know i am in one right now. My advice would be to leave, if he is saying things like that and talking to another girl 24-7, im sorry hun but that has cheating all over it to me, hope i helped any sorry if i was a lil blunt.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (10 September 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntYou're still having problems with him? How much more are you going to take, dear? He's into WoW so he will be on it 24-7, so she has a lot of time to talk to him then. You're in a LDR so there's no way to tell or prove he's cheating. And I know people toss those 3 words around but you only say them to a boyfriend/girlfriend, partner, or family member. So if she's none of the above then chances are he's got a side item. I'm sorry but by your last post it didn't sound like there was someone else, this one I changed my mind. I think it's time you let this guy go, like I said before he's NOT LDR material.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2010):

me and my husband have been married for 2 years now, and i found text messages in his phone, saying I love you, and the sent saying i love you too hun, i confronted him, and asked him whats up? he told me she was just a friend, nothing more. so i looked into it alittle more (im an untrustful person. :( ) and the girl had a husband aswell, and it actually turned out that they were just friends. i guess she told him she loved him as a friend way, and my hubby being the softie that he is, said i love you back, i doubt thats the problem here. but you have to just trust him, and see what happens.

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A female reader, SeXySaYwAt South Africa +, writes (10 September 2010):

SeXySaYwAt agony auntthis is a guy who needs help. Leave him alone. He doesnt deserve to be with u. U spending too much of ur time worrying whether his cheating or nt, in my language we call it joling. Dnt waste ur time. Long distance relationships r nt healthy. Is the evidence nt infront of u? His a playa! Get rid of him.

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