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writes:So I've been friends with this girl for a few months now and at first thats all I really felt about her. But as I hung out with her more and more I started to become really interested in her. She always seems flirty around me but that just seems like her natural personality. She hangs out with other guys and is very outgoing with random people and that doesn't bother me at all.But lately I've been doing everything I could to show her that I care about her. I go out of my way to see her sometimes, give her compliments about the way she looks and things of that nature. The only problem though is that she is really busy with her classes and her job. Her week usually consists of her classes/teaching internship during the day and then going to work at night and not getting off until midnight but i'm ok with that to because just being around her makes me happy.A couple of days ago I saw her and she was pretty burned from where she fell asleep sun bathing and I said that aloe vera would help but she said she didn't like how "green" it was and how it looked on her skin, weird I know. So after I left I went out later and got some non-colored aloe vera and an orange rose to give her. I tied it together and put a note on it joking about how I made sure it wasn't green and that I hoped she liked the flower and put it on the windshield of her car so she could see it when she got off. A couple of days later I see her and she asks why I did that and I told her I cared about her and wanted to make sure she was all right. She thanked me for the aloe vera and the flower...but that was really it. Nothing really changed that day. She appreciated the gift and she said she got a couple of texts from guys kind of "ooo-ing" at the flower on her windshield but nothing seemed to change about she saw me. Well we talked for a while and then I had to go so I wrote my number on a napkin and told her I knew she was really busy but if she ever needed anything or wanted to chat that she could call me however I never saw her actually take it, she said to leave it on the table. But the thing is I really don't know if she feels anything for me. Judging by the way we always talk and hang out and her general "flirtiness" with me it would seem so but then every time I seem to put myself out there I don't get anything in return. Is there anything here? Or do I need to move on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2010): I Think you should try asking her out to a date, She may have some hidden feelings for you. But if she denies dont take it personally, move on. If she mentions the dreaded "Just Friends" thing then try to find some ways to spend time with her. Find out what she likes, try making some conversation and dont try to get her to come to you. Don't come on too strong or you guys will go back to square one.
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