A
male
age
41-50,
*luenest
writes:My Gf of 1 year never accepts her mistakes and instead blames it on me. Recently she asked me if she could go meet a guy friend who had proposed her. i let her when she said they were going to a coffee shop. But 2 days later she told me that they had been to a movie with 2 of the guys friends(male). She never expresses regret nor does she accept her mistake. instead blames me sayin i over react and its a small issue. when ever i try talkin abt it she gets wild and says if i had done the same thing she wouldnt mind. this has happned a couple of times where i end up gettin blamed for over reactin and tryin to talk as to why she did it. when ever she does something like this, i shudnt talk abt it. she just wants to forget it and carry on. she is a nice girl though. after these incidents she is very nice n sweet to me, but i m still upset wit her.what shud i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2010): Really? Being a girl I dont think thats really acceptable!! I think that she is putting alot of stress on 1) You and 2) Herself. She is maybe confused and doesnt realize how it affects you? Or she is just careless and doesnt mind the way you feel. I think you should talk to her and decide soon, before things get to out of hand. Hope this helped!! xxoo
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