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female
age
41-50,
*ypsytracks
writes:I have been dating this guy for almost a year. We have been going out for drives and movies but he has never tried to kiss me or hold my hand till about 2 months back. Last month we made love for the first time. He says it was the first time for him(he is 37)But he never kissed me or caressed me. he says he loves me and wants to marry me. iam confused because he never answers my call..only when he calls can i talk to him, we go out only when he wants to go out and where he wants to go. And now his business is doing badly so I pay for all our outings. Today I was sick and had to go to hospital.. he didnt even call up the whole day to find out if I was ok and he says he loves me and wants to be with me all his life. I keep forgiving him because he was sexually abused as a child. I really want to know if he likes me. Reply to this Question
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (9 September 2010):
 You need to ask him if he likes you or not. If he stalls, says 'ermmmmm' or says 'I don't know', then you need to let him go.
Of course if he does say that he likes you, then you need to tell him that you don't feel like you're a part of this relationship. He needs to make the effort doing things and going places that you do and want to go to aswell. Tell him how hurt you were when he didn't even bother to ask if you were ok after being in the hospital.
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