I slept with him knowing he has a girlfriend

Hi, i'm writing this as i feel lost and very confused. Me and a male friend went out for drinks and i ended up drinking a lot that evening, he was drinking also but didn't seem that drunk. We were walking home and he held my hand, i let him as i didn't think anything of it as we're friends, well when we got to his place he asked if i wanted to come in for a bit, i did. We were in the living room just talking, then after a while one thing led to another and we slept together. The thing is he has a girlfriend whom he has been with about 7 or 8 months. I know it was probably stupid to have go back to his but i didn't think anything would happen as he's with her and he said he'd never cheat on her. Now i feel sick about what happenend and i never thought i'd be one of those girls to sleep with somebody who has a girlfriend. I personally don't know her but the guilt and shame is eating me up. I had work the next day and he text me asking how my hangover was and was i seeing anybody, i said i was just dating. When i got home i went on facebook and he was online, he asked if i was still tired from last night, but never mentioned what happened. I asked him what he remembered from that night and he just said "not much", wether that's true or not i don't know, personally i think he remembers exactly what we did but i didn't push it any further. I hadn't spoeken to him in a few weeks as he was on holiday with his girlfriend, when he got back and we were online again, he asked how my dating was going,i told him i wasn't dating anybody right now, he said "but you're REALLY hot, you must have guys chasing you all the time" as a joke i just said "yeah, but i just tell the to p*** off" so he replied "hope you're not going to tell me to piss off" i said no and he said "now i'm smiling". Looking at his facebook profile you'd never guess he cheated on her, there's a photo of them together and he's acting like he's a decent guy, i'm not sure if this is for show or what. So, anyway, what do you think he's up to? After it happened he said the next time we meet up we should go out as friends so we can talk as friends, he obviously remembers what he did but hasn't said so. I'm just angry that he's putting on this decent guy act with his girlfried, annoucing how great she is on fb when all the time he's acting like this to me, i'm just very angry not just with him but myself as well. This is eating me up and he's acting like he's such a great guy to everyone else. I mean, is his gf that stupid?

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