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writes:I'm have been in a committed long distance relationship for one year and two months. Me and my bf were talking on the phone and I told him that I'm going to watch movies with two of my guy friends on friday.. and then he started teasing me and i started teasing him too by saying that yeah i will enjoy... then dunno why he said that he is coming on friday to meet me! and he came on thursday that is today... with one of his friends travelling 9 hrs journey! he brought his friend along as he was having some financial problems. then we met.. it was raining heavily.. we met.. my bf told me that i sound bad in phone! he told this in front of his friend! then my bf told his friend to excuse us and then he smooched me.. then we all went to the mall.. he was acting weird.. he wasn't so affectionate towards me.. he even didn't say that he loves me. then he said he will meet me in the evening but he cancelled the programme because his friend didn’t feel like coming!!! though he asked will u mind.. but he should have understood..lol what does this mean? Is he using me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe is not showing that affection.he missed all the opprtunities.he even didn't hugged me while saying goodbye..lol though he said sry
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (9 September 2010):
 Where does the question of using you come from? I'm not so sure if I even understand you question.He drove 9 hrs to meet you, why do you need verbal proclamations of love? What are you concerned about? That he didn't meet you in the evening? Thats a little silly and over demanding, dont you think? Cut the man some slack, he must've been tired!
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (9 September 2010):
 He was jealous and wanted to try and make sure you knew he was still interested. I don't know where you come up with him using you. He drove 9 hours to see you because he was worried about you going out with other guys, even if he won't admit that.
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