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anonymous
writes: I need as many opinions as possible. Is it true that sometimes a man can just lose his sexual desire for his wife for no apparent reason and get no erections when they have sex? Or is this just impossible? And there is always a cause? And if there is, then what are they? Thanks
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reader, C. Grant +, writes (9 September 2010):
It's certainly possible. It could be a health issue -- depression, low hormone levels, medications which interfere with erectile function, etc.
If he's been fully checked out medically, then it could be stress, boredom with the sexual routine, or relationship troubles, to name a few.
If his health has been checked, then the only way to find out what's going on is to communicate.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2010): Did this happen all of a sudden? Are you suspicious that perhaps he met somebody else and that has caused his change? There are so many reasons why this could happen that I couldn't even tell you any specific thing. If you are concerned, you should talk to your doctor, you both should go together and speak with the doc see what advice he or she can give your husband on what could be causing his condition.
If however, you suspect it is something unrelated to his physical health and instead perhaps there might be some outside influence driving a wedge and a distance between you and your husband then it would be a good idea to confront him and talk to him about this. Its not good to bottle stuff up inside. And if he is your husband you should feel comfortable enough to express yourself to him.
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