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51-59,
*hinachik
writes:I'm hearbroken - is there anything I can do? Do I still have any hope? Its been two weeks since we last saw each other.I was seeing this guy for 4 months, and though it was never perfect, as it was long distance, we had a connection, but he found it hard to open up. When he eventually did, it wasn't what I thought and it was very intense. We both felt hurt and rejected, all I wanted to do was to have a chat about where we were headed.Since then he pulled away, and I panicked and became pushy/clingy. He has now stopped contacting me all together. He's logged in a few times onto the dating site where we met. Though I know its not good news and I know I should be moving on, I can't turn off the feelings I had for him so easily, I know when we were together he had some intense feelings for me too. Will he contact me again? Do I have any hope at all? Its silly I know, but I really liked this guy a lot and it grips my insides to think I wont see him anymore.Please help? Thanks
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reader, Ibrahim Thomas  +, writes (10 September 2010):
I know exactly how deeply sad you feel,especially after giving all you had to the relationship. But we just have to be honest with ourselves and view things the way they are,not the way we want them to be. He probably is missing you as much as you're missing him. All you need to do is do some stuff that are gonna keep you busy so the thoughts fade away. Don't hang on when you're not sure. He might have a rethink and come back at you. Goodluck!
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