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writes:Hi this is gonna sound so silly but im really upset cos ive just seen that my ex has deleted me off facebook for no reason! He split up with me 2 years ago, we never really got on after this but 3 months ago i seen him out we ended up talking and had a little snog and he added me on facebook the next day. After that, we would sometimes talk on there as mates and then today i noticed that hes deleted me!! I dont know why! Anyway I really feel like sending him an angry message because i feel hurt but i dont wanna seem desperate. Why would he do that? Im upset as i do still have feelings for him i always thought we mite get back together now it doesnt look like we will! What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys for your answers. Ive been wondering why he deleted me i really dont think he has a new gf.....the only thing i can think of is that a male friend wrote on my wall a couple of days ago that he seen me the other nite and i looked good and could he take me out for a drink soon! Then my ex deleted me.
But to be honest, you are right....he finished with me 2 years ago and whatever his reasons for deleteing me I really need to get over him, the only problem is its so damn hard!!!
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (9 September 2010):
 Maybe his new GF didn't like that you were on his page, maybe he felt it was time to let you go and put you in his "past".
Let it go honey.
The longer you hang on to the idea of the two of you getting back together, the longer it will take for you to get over him and the longer it will take for you to meet someone special.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (9 September 2010):
 Let it go. He's not worth pursuing. If he was interested in getting back together, he would be actively coming after you.
My guess is that he's hooked up with someone new and she didn't like the fact that he was friends with his ex on FB. That kind of thing happens all the time. OR, maybe he isn't over you and deleting you is a step he's taking to get over you.
Either way, you're broken up, and have been for a long time. It's definitely time to move on. When you dwell on the past, you can miss the great things out there for you in the present.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (9 September 2010):
 Look - he simply doesnt have feelings for you and probably went through his facebook looking at all the people he doesnt talk to anymore or need in his life anymore, and then deleted all the people he is no longer really in touch with. It is nothing massively personal, its just he obviously doesnt have feelings for you and doesnt see the need to keep his past in the present.
Dont send an angry message as you will seem desperate, and just let it go. You have been holding onto feelings for him for too long now and at least this has given you the closure you need. So you know it is really over, there is no getting back together so move on.
It really does not matter why he deleted, all you need to know from this is that he has no feelings for you and it is time to move on. An ex is an ex for a reason, and there is no point holding out for something from the past because there is a life out there waiting for you to start living it.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, Mystery woman  +, writes (9 September 2010):
Don't bother..obviously he's not as into you as you've been with him (no offense meant to you, though) and he doesn't seem like a stand-up guy either who'd have the guts to come and talk to you about whatever problem he suddenly realized you both might have..forget about him and move on..just don't let your heart melt if he tries to talk to you again..
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2010): He may have a new girlfriend. Time to move on.
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