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writes:I have been married close to 15 years. Have two adorable kids, but husband never wants intercourse. Our children are the product of me jumping on the horse and being the sex teacher. But after the birth of my second child he has absolutely no interest in intercourse at all. If I mention this to him he'll say sorry, but nothing has changed. If I discuss this subject too much he becomes defensive and blames it on me for reasons like, you went to bed earlier than me etc. He never sleeps with me. He either goes to my daughter's room or my son's. Now I'm in my forties and feel if I stay with him it will be a life of "I love you" but no sex! My husband is Chinese from a very orthodox upbring. I'm the only woman he has ever had any sex with, but I was born and raised in the USA my feelings about sex are positive and before I married I had great sex with x-boyfriends. This only deepens my feeling of despair because I know how wonderful great sex can be. This is basically my situation without too many details. Can you tell me what you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2010): Sounds like he's unhappily married and probably feels trapped in a hopeless situation. I think you are going to need to get marriage counciling asap.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (9 September 2010):
 Sounds very strange to me, after our first son was born we could leave each other alone
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