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anonymous
writes:my boyfriend and i have been dating for 4 year and 3 months and have been living together for about 8 months now. he doesn't want me to visit my friends or make new friends, he doesn't want me to talk to any guy regardless of whether i know him or now. he also believes that all the house chores must be done by woman and woman should do as their men say regardless of whether they agree or disagree. i once had male friends but i had to let them all go because he didn't like. he expect me to inform him of every move i make and to do everything as he says, even on how to use my money, how to dress and when to visit my family. i don't know if i should stay or go but i am also sure that i can not live like this for the rest of my life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2010): I definitely think you should leave. This guy is controlling you, and by making you cut people out of your life you will eventually end up with no one but him. And that could be quite risky. I don't want to sound all doom and gloom like here, but this type of situation SERIOUSLY concerns me. It is not healthy at all. You are not his, you belong to yourself and have your own life and friends too. Don't let him take everything away from you. Otherwise, you will one day have nothing and no one but him...is that what you want? Please do be careful, and think of yourself.
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