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writes:hi, i am back again in your website to tell or ask something about this stuff about my relationship with my ex bf..Lately i figured out something about whats really going on. I am not really sure about it. And i don't want to think that this is really whats going on..But i know that my bf will not going to dumped me that easily just because of that facebook stuff only. Unless something or somebody is telling or saying more about this facebook thing? I know my bf for 3 yrs, and as far as i've known him, he is not that Narrow minded jerk, for him to broke up with me that easily just because of that facebook thing. And from the very beginning of this break up, i felt really something going on about it.And it has something to do with his mom.Remember i told you that its his mom who asked me to add his uncle on my facebook? And what i was thinking is that maybe his mom tells something more that the thing that i just add his uncle on my facebook? You know, like something that she told my bf that makes him really really pissed-off aside from telling him that i add his uncle..And i figured out too lately that one of my bf cousin which is in my fb list wants my bf mom's for me to remove as one of my friends in fb because the mom said that the cousin and my bf are not in good terms, and that my bf will not going to like it if he will found out that the cousin is my friend in my fb account. And then a week ago, i saw my bf cousins comment in her facebook and she said that she did talked to my bf? And they are going to some place with her brother.And this makes me drive very crazy?So i didn't stop in there because i really nedd to know whats going on..Because i feel really something strange with the way my bf is breaking up with me..so i asked the cousin of my bf to know if they are in good terms or not, and she said:they are in very good terms. And the info that i got was very incorrect info. And then i right an email to one of my bf aunt, telling or asking her if she knows anything because i told her that i don't want my bf to be dis-respected by some of our friends when he go back here next month because of what he did to me. And then after a days, my bf's aunt wrote me an email that she said she gave my phone number to my bf's mom and that she will not going to do it again because the mom didn't like what i said in that email. But that day that i was talking to my bf's mom, she didn't mentioned about that email. That she don't liked what i said, etc..And then after a days, i tried to call her and then i told her about that email.. And from then she begun to say something. Something like.. NOW SHE"S TALKING...I'd been talking with my bf's mom over the phone by 3 yrs too,,.since my relationship with his son started, but its not that very often specially when my bf is here with me because he don't want me to talk to his mom that much..And she's very nice to me. Actually i almost treted her as my own mother.Anyway she's the one who told me to add my bf's uncle in my fb. And she told it to my bf eventhough she knows that my bf will be mad or piss off about it. I don't know if what i was thinking is right, but is it possible that its his mom that seems to be the problem? What i mean is that is it possible that she's just trying to be nice to me everytime we talked on the phone , but in real she's not? Because i know my bf really loves me. And still loves me untill now. His a nice person. His still answering my calls, but everytime i did mentioned his mom's name, he makes an excuse so we can hang up the phone. What is that mean? Trying not to say anything about his mom or what?All i want is for my bf to speak up and tell something what really his mom told him about the facebook that makes him decide to broke up with me that easily. He really hurt me so bad, but i don't know why is it something out there that i can HATE him or even do dis-respect him.. I can't explain why ?Pls help me. What should i do? I don't want to blammed his mom about that facebook thing, but i know she did something wrong about it. Or she's the one who puts me in trouble about this facebook thing?Tell me what to do. Its not i want my bf to take me back, but i just want to know the TRUTH.. And what if he comes back and didn't try to talk to me anymore? what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2010): Facebook is becoming a surety to destroy a relationship. I got off it after recieving an angry message off the partner of an ex,who got in touch with me telling me she was single.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (9 September 2010):
 I think people should keep their relationships of the Internet. Facebook and the lot of them (social websites) are MAGNETS for all kind of drama related crap.
IF you want to know why he broke up with you I would call him/meet with him and talk it over.
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