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writes:Hi, I am a 20 year old guy and I was wondering what is the best way to get a girls attention so that she actually conciders you as a potential bf. Reply to this Question
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reader, DanceInTheDark  +, writes (14 October 2010):
 Pay attention to her, be confident, and most of all, flirt with her.
Make her feel special.
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (14 October 2010):
 First off, you want to maintain a balance between friendship and love interest. Don't fall too deeply into a girl's friend category. Stay on her radar. Dress well and get yourself sexy, memorable cologne. Scent stays with girls after a hug etc etc...you want her to keep thinking of you and a masculine scent appeals to a woman (just don't bathe in it). A lot of my girlfriends feel a majority of attraction by a man's smell. Show yourself to be a good verbal communicator, girls appreciate that quality. Be respectful and show consideration. If she's having a bad day, be there to give her a hug or simply listen to her problems. Be independent and confident. Do NOT make yourself out to be a player. Playing such games is a turn-off for a woman who wants a serious relationship. Again, make sure you stay on her radar. Present your best face and try to elude a level of attraction-meaning highlight the features which will enchant her. Blue-eyed? Wear a shirt that brings them out. Muscular? Short-sleeved shirt. Etc. Etc.
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