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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi. I've been seeing this guy for a few weeks who I met online. He's really nice and everything, and I want to sleep with him.The thing is, I'm a virgin, but havnt told him. All I want to know is will it hurt? I do masturbate which I hope helps me. Will this effect my ability to withstand the pain? I do really like him, but don't want to disapoint with my first time, so sexual tips could be helpful too if the virginity issue is a bit boring.
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reader, BC123  +, writes (15 October 2010):
Yes, defitnitly let him know. This way he can work with you to make it the best possible experience for you. And most guys like having sex with a virgin.
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reader, Chris5190  +, writes (15 October 2010):
You should probably wait. Don't give it up so fast, This is coming from a straight guy mind you, you should wait for a while to see if he really cares about you because he might just wind up taking advantage of you. I see alot of guys my age take advantage of girls, even the other way around sometimes, and it's not just sexual either. it's sad to see people get hurt like that. So my advice to you is save it for someone who cares about you and you know you can trust :-)
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reader, 1989BABY +, writes (15 October 2010):
 Really let him know, cuz guys can be rough at times, just tell him to take him slow, and control the way things go
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