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30-35,
*m1x
writes:I am hoplessly still in love with my ex but I have a boyfriend we haven't been together for longg but I feel like I am pushing him away bcoz of it , he is lovely tells me he loves me and would do anything for me but he does have some drink problems but I cannot forget about my ex I deleted his num I deleted him from my socail networkin sites but he keeps texting everytime I think I'm over him .we met in feb this year through friends we got on great until he was talkin to other girls we split up as I didn't trust him both of us hurt. He wanted to get bk together a few weeks later I wasn't sure since then we have met up a few times he acts like he wants to get bktogether then nothing I no I am just being used but part of me always wonders if it could ever be like it was I do want to make a go of it with new guy buut maybe its just not meant to be can anyone help me I just can't go on like this anymore please be truthful x
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reader, breath_in  +, writes (15 October 2010):
 Your welcome
and good luck =)
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reader, cm1x +, writes (14 October 2010):
cm1x is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah your right I have to take time out for myself as its not fair on new guy thank you finally someone makes sense lol I'm just gunna ignore the ex he had his chance lol .thanks again
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reader, breath_in +, writes (14 October 2010):
i understand how you must be feeling loving someone like you so obviously do .but there is a reason why you too aren't , together .keep in mind boys don't change and if he didn't take your relationship seriously the 1st time and was talking to other girls then what makes you think now hes changed ? you did a good thing by removing yourself from him and deleting him from your life to start off new . its pretty clear to me that if he really wanted to be with you he would be . but by seeing that he's jumping back and fourth hesitating its shows he's not taking you seriously and hes just doing the "old push and pull ".
he makes an excuse to push you away then when he feels like it he pulls you back which is just hurting you more .
you must end this thing you have with your ex because from the looks of it all your gonna go threw is a roll coaster of emotions that will make your life hell you need some stability .
as for your current bf i'm sorry to say this but if your still thinking about your ex your not really giving him a fair shot here it sounds like hes a rebound guy i don't know i could be wrong but if this new guy really made you happy you wouldn't be thinking about your ex and if you were over him that relationship might have a chance . i think you should just concentrate on your self and get over this ex of yours and stop dating your current bf until you are ready to put your all in it without thinking about your ex.
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