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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi, i know this might sound silly but when my friend is texting i think it is one of my ex's or boys i have met. i know your probley thinking im paranoid but let me explain lol. when i was 15 i was with this boy for about a year and as soon as i finshed with him my friend started seeing him like a week later. When she did this but thought we finished so its nothing i can do. but now im older she is still doing it.as i met this boy in town and went home with him, we was with each other 2 weekends after too, but the weekend after i went out and met up with this boy again everything was fine, i went to the toliet and came back to find my friend kissing him, i told her how i felt and she said it would never happen again. but for about a week later she would be whispering to the girls and wouldnt include me and texing someone and just making sure i wasnt lookin. i later found out it was the boy that i have been meeting up with in town they later started seeing each other, but it didnt last long.this is why i keep thinking she is doing this to me. i really like this boy and we have met up a couple of times. but i know it sounds silly but im scared my friend is goin to come in and take it all anyway from me again, i think this as he works in this pub and we dont usualy go there. but the other day i was in work. after work i phoned my friend just for a chat and she said she was in the pub in were this boy works. i told her how i felt and she said "i couldnt believe you could think i would do that to you." but i am still worried as she has done it beofore to me, and i know this sounds silly but have said he is "fit" what should i do ???
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reader, deaf4eva +, writes (15 October 2010):
This guy is not worth it! Sounds like he's givn you the run around and have the best of both worlds . As for your friend I think you should ditch her and find new ones this will cause problems in the long run if she done this to you since you were 15 . Find someone who is worthy of your time these 2 ain't .
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