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writes:My wife and i been together for a total of 4 years and been married for 3 years. We have 1 son together that is 3 years, and she has 1 son by her last realationship. We had our ups and downs through the marriage. I love her with all my heart. We been seperated for almost 4 months and I still keep in touch with her by texting but she doesnt return my messages about how i feel and im taking councling to improve our marriage. After a month she kicked me out She met someone else that she went out with before. Why would she go out with a guy that she dated in the past that didnt work out? She tells me that she never loved me at all while we was married. Did she say that cause shes still mad at me or still in love with me. My wife tells me that she going to file but she hasnt done it and the money to file is not an issue. I feel if she is done with me, she would've file when she kicked me out. Why is she holding off to file? What else can i do to keep our marriage? I told her everything how i feel and ask her whats the reason, she kicked me out. She doesnt answer me about that question. All i get i'm being an a** and nothing more is said. Couple days ago on fb she put pics of our son and tagged them , she got mad that i did and deleted me off as her friend. She tagged one of my pics and i didnt get mad. What do you guys think? I havent seen my son in 2 weeks and i text her twice to see how hes doing, she doesnt answer my texts about my son. Our 3 year anniversary is comming up in couple of days. What should i do on that day? Should i get her a card saying i love you and a poem that i wrote for her. I love my wife with all my heart and i dont want to loose her forever. I havent been eating alot and i just feel guilty about this whole thing.
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reader, sw1982 +, writes (16 October 2010):
Thanks for your advice. I love my wife with all my heart. I cant seem to get her out my mind. She is very mad at me right now cause i cant stop texting her about how i feel about our marriage and kids. She doesnt seem to get rid of her boyfriend to make it work. I dont really understand why would she date her ex again for the 5 time. I text her last night saying im filing for a divorce. All she said whatever, i want a divorce. I dont want to loose her, she the best thing happen to me. She kicked me out 2 times in the past. It seems to me that when she does its when im not working. Do you guys think she is playing games with me by dating her ex after she told me in our realationship that she doesnt like to date her exs again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2010): I wouldn't bother. She is moving on and so should you. Get a good lawyer and file for divorce.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2010): I'm sorry, but straight to the point, she doesn't deserve you. Get over her and find someone who knocks you off your feet. You also should be entitled to access to your son. As soon as you stop responding to her silly little games she will be running Back. The problem Is not with you, it's with her, you'll never win she's emotionally abusing you. I know it's hard but be brave, get what you deserve in life, you deserve to be happy. Also, she will never ever have the right to stop you seeing your child.
Take care
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