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writes:Why does he keep things from me?We have been going on and off for a couple years now. im 16 years old, and right now, for the third time we are dating, trying to make it work. the reason we broke up was becasue i went to japan for a year for an exchange, but during that time, he still loved me, and i him. But when i was there, he picked up bad habits, like smoking and he started driking a little. when i came back and we started dating again, he said he would stop smoking. but today, after three weeks, my father saw him smoking on his way home! its not that he is smoking that hurts me, its the fact that he lied to me, he was hiding that he didnt quit. i feel like he doesnt trust me! i wouldnt get mad at him for this, it hurts when i found out that he was hiding this from me. i dont know what to do. please help.
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reader, Ven  +, writes (17 October 2010):
Talk to him. You don't need to be confrontational, but let him know that him not smoking or drinking are nowhere near as important to you as him being honest with you.
Tell him you love him. It works on guys way more than we let on...
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