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writes: I've met this lady about a month ago actually about 2 months ago, because I took off up north for about two weeks and sort of kept in touch with each other by e-mailing each other for the time!The question is she is to short can't kiss and and has nothing to talk about and I know that if I tell her that she is not that good of a kisser that would be it!So, that's another problem, she is to feisty to say what you'd like too, because you can tell that it would really tick her off! So, doesn't that really tell me something!!!!Anyway I really think she likes me and I know I really don't want to really carry it any further! How is a nice way of breaking it off?Norm
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (14 October 2010):
There is no nice way of breaking up. However, you do have an advantage because it's only been 2 months so she shouldn't be that attached to you. Is this a LDR? If so even better for her to move on faster. Of course when she asks the dreaded sobbing "why?" you can't tell her it's because she's an oversensitive, clingy, temperamental midget who kisses like she's 12. Bad idea..that's what you don't say. Instead, be direct but simple.."I'm sorry this isn't working out for me, just not into this relationship." Also, if it is a LDR blame some of it on the distance..Like I said given the timeline she should be ok with it, but if she's one of those ones who is going to try to fight you on it..then you're going to have to tell her you're just not that into her.
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