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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been dating on and off for 3 years. Would have been 3 years straight if it werent for this one girl Kristen. He kept cheating on me with her..then they started dating. Things got horrible between them. I mean BAD. It made him realize how much he wanted me. So now were back together. Were starting over and its amazing. But in the car the other night he told me he sent her a message on facebook saying..."I dont want to be best friends but i dont want to be enemies...lets just be civil"..ect. Well at least he TOLD me...but should i be worried??..that he even sent her a message??
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2010): i know you may be a little insecure about him sending her that message because theyve had a history in the past. Honestly, i dont think you have anything to worry about, if he really wanted to pursue her, he wouldnt of told you that he sent her a message in the first place, he would have just done it behind your back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2010): If theres a chance they might bump into each other. Then hes just politely saying he doesnt want to be friends with her or enemies. So can they keep any encounters civil. And that seems reasonable. But if theres no chance they will see each other in daily life. Then he could be fishing to stay in contact. And that wouldnt be very cool of him.
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reader, AntiAliasJohn +, writes (14 October 2010):
I agree with the previous assessment, that your boyfriend is likely trying to put a kind cap on that previous relationship and pushing it behind him. In this situation, though, I think having a high degree of honesty about what you two are feeling, about and for each other, is paramount.
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reader, Boy Blue +, writes (14 October 2010):
If that is what he told you then I don't think you should be worried. I mean I don't see what there is to worry about so I might be missing something. You are probably reading too much into what happened.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (14 October 2010):
 Nah, really this message is him distancing himself from her. I wouldn't be worried unless he continues contacting her.
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